Life is a test, the biggest test in faith is when u have lost everything and still believe...that is makes belief in god more stronger
That's the thing. I think it is not unusual for people to believe when this feeling of loneliness strikes them. Therefore you can have your god for the tough times to come.so you wont feel alone.
some people need this comfort. i dont, but ive heard about it.
I think opposing to the organised religion is a thing you "should" do without this quote:I think all major religions are a complete and total waste of time. And I believe they have caused FAR more misery and lives then they have ever saved.
How many tens of millions of humans have been killed or condemned and lives torn assunder (not to mention thousands and thousands of molested children) all because of some unproveable entity has judged them to be bad (or in the case of molested children - some stupid, fucking loser finds the only way he can get power and prey on the weak for his depraved desires).
And if I were running the World, I would remove charities as tax exempt organizations immediately, except those branches of them that help the poor, the needy, etc. (like the Salvation Army). Otherwise, if a religion cannot make it on it's own, let it die.
With all due respect to those that believe in such things;
Have you ever felt wrecked (maybe not, it doesn't happen very often),Religion is for the weak and/or the ignorant and/or the desperate.
}The only thing that kept me relatively sane and from committing suicide was my belief in my faith (God, Jesus, Alpha, Omega, however you want to say it) and in myself.
You're free to whatever makes you happy in this life, Johnny. Let me fucking remind you of something, though, you don't know jack-shit one about me, so don't go assuming shit about my life or experiences. Got it? I wanna make that clear right fucking now. I find your tone belittling, offensive, and completely antagonistic. Don't make the mistake of assuming something about someone, okay?
Now, as I stated:
Were it not for my belief in God - AND IN MYSELF - I would not be here today. I would've either blown my brains out with my 9mm or else popped a few dozen pills.
I had lost my job. I was broke, about to be homeless, and everyone around me (people whom I thought were my friends) had either abandoned me or weren't around. So ... one night while I'm sitting on my floor in the dark, I decided to end it all. I said, "FUCK IT." I had my pistol and I had my pills. Didn't need anything else.
I don't know what happened, but to this day I still can't explain it. And I'm certainly not going to share something so intensely personal with the likes of you, Johnny.
All I know is four years later, here I sit. Alive, well, and completely unashamed and unabashed to show my faith and talk about it.
You wanna make fun of me and assume shit about me? Go right ahead. Just don't ever make the mistake of posting it and expecting me not to respond in kind. :hatsoff:
Sorry man, misunderstanding, I wasn't replying to your message (I was replying to McRocket's one), I just used your quote in order to show that someone else is talking about being wrecked (I have felt bad at times, maybe not wrecked, but I was trying to show that shit happens and great stress might grow on you).
And as I see, what you're saying are not opposed to what I say (but on the contrary I thought that your first post was helping me make my point clear), I'm talking about the need to believe so you can relax, I do not believe in god (I'd rather say: I don't know, and that should be my belief), but I used to and after I stopped believing in him, because of unimportant -at the moment- reasons, there have been times where I thought that he could be out there helping me out.
Again, I'm sorry, not because of saying anything about you, but because of being careless with the way I present my views I made you so angry, and I really know how bad it is if something so personal is disapproved, I wouldn't do such a thing, cause I'm too very touchie with those things.
Please reply, tell me if we're clear
I agree about causing far more harm than they have ever done good. Besides, you can argue that not telling someone who is going to die in a week that they will die is a good humane thing so they don't panic, but it's still misinformation, people have a right to know the truth. So arguing that perpetrating these fables to keep people happy even though some of the perpetrators know it's all bollocks is a good thing, is kind of weak.
Besides, these religions are used to influence voting, and sway people's opinions on all kinds of issues.
And finally McR your comment about religion being for the weak, ignorant and desperate, I beg to differ. Try being raised in an environment where all you ever know from day 1 is a certain dogmatic set of religious codes texts and symbols. Then you try breaking free from that. Not many ever do. In some cases why would they want to. In other cases, it's just a bridge too far.
I don't blame those people. They really believe. You can't blame them or say they're weak. They just had life experiences that led them to believe those things. They could have lived your life instead, and become atheists or whatever instead. They had a different story to you. Maybe in their shoes you'd have been a cross worshipper too.
I DO NOT blame those people. That is why I typed: 'Religion is for the weak and/or the ignorant and/or the desperate.'
If I am taught that 2 + 2 = 3 then that does not make me stupid, just ignorant.
All of my immediate family is either dead or has disowned me. Sure it was painful when my last two siblings said adiós. But you get over it.without a god what did you do?
Maybe got some help for friends or family; imagine not having them, then wouldn't a god fill the void?
Of course, I see that you can't believe in god as it seems irrational, like a bad "we're in it for the money" Hollywood movie, but what is your solution for those who feel the need of a god?
Do you know what goes on?, If we are an ant farm? as mentioned before in the thread.
You don't like a movie, but you're in the cinema, won't you choose one?
I didn't mention it clearly, but I was talking about the blame and the ignorance (in bold).
I didn't understand your opinion at first but now I see that my opinion is the same with yours.
P.S.: I saw that you're replying to fox, but it is enough for a reply to me as well.
Sorry **********. 2+2 always equals 4 (though I am sure some physicist could argue otherwise). Just because these people choose to believe it equals 3 does not mean it does. It just means they believe it does.No, no, no... you're not ignorant if you're taught incessently from the age of -0 that 2+2=3 and believe it throughout life. Because then you reach 15 and start hearing it actually equals 4, but all the people you've ever trusted and loved and who have nurtured you have always told you, and still tell you, that it really does equal 3 even though some will tell you it equals 4 because they are lost souls.
So they're not ignorant, they don't ignore reality, they just see reality the way you see religion, and you see religion the way they see reality. For them, it is you that is ignorant. See? So they are not ignorant at all. They make a choice, to believe what they have been nurtured with or have "discovered" later in life, rather than to believe what you believe. It doesn't mean ignorance at all. Or weakness, or desperation. It *can* be those things or one of them, but it is not always or even usually, I might add.
All of my immediate family is either dead or has disowned me. Sure it was painful when my last two siblings said adiós. But you get over it.
And friends? If you go through life with one good friend then I say you are doing great. Friends are humans. Which means they have insecurities and fears that probably they do not even know about. And you never know when one of those fears pops up and wreaks havoc to your friendship.
Enjoy other people? Sure. Take what they have to offer you. And offer them back what you feel like. But count on them never. If they help you when you are down; put one in the plus column for them. If they turn on you; put one in the negative column for them. But NEVER depend on them. If you do, you are a fool. And you will eventually, probably be disappointed.
Learn to depend on yourself. Because at the end of the day, yourself is all you can count on no matter what.
People have to learn to stop depending on others for their feelings of self worth. Look inside yourself, deep. For only you can really know what's there. I bet you that somewhere inside all those phobias you will find a good person. But a person that probably got hurt over and over again from those they cared about. And it tainted you. Hurt you. Made you bitter or something negative.
Just forgive them (because they in turn were undoubtedly hurt by others also) and forgive yourself and try to do the best that you can. And when you hurt someone, never forget it. Don't abuse yourself over it, but never forget it.
Religion is for people - IMO - that are still too dependent on others for their feelings of self worth. And since they cannot find others to tell them that they are loved or are good. Then they look to sources that will never disappoint them - religious ones that can never be disproved - because there is absolutely no factual proof that they ever existed in the forms claimed by their followers. How simple and painless to be loved by something that can never be proven to not be there?
And as for religion saving people from suicide? Fine. Power to it. But there are many other things that stop people from jumping out of windows: porn, work, love, hobbies, sports, family, music, sex. The list is almost endless.
But in the end, few of these things have been used to justify the abuse and killing of millions upon millions of people.
No. As far as I am concerned. Religion has done WAY more harm then good.
And as long as people in major religions keep using guilt and fear and praying on the weak to get converts - then they will not only continue to have my pity. But also my disgust.
So they're not ignorant, they don't ignore reality, they just see reality the way you see religion, and you see religion the way they see reality. For them, it is you that is ignorant. See? So they are not ignorant at all. They make a choice, to believe what they have been nurtured with or have "discovered" later in life, rather than to believe what you believe. It doesn't mean ignorance at all. Or weakness, or desperation. It *can* be those things or one of them, but it is not always or even usually, I might add.
I believe in Mod!!! :bowdown:What happened a divine intervention to split the thread in two?![]()
The following is part of the definition of 'ignorant' from Merriam-Webster's online dictionary:But they are not ignorant. They have paid very close attention to the scores of people that have taught and shown them how and why 2 and 2 apples equals three, and so will not be easily swayed by unenlightened fools into thinking that all their wisdom and knowledge are false. Stubborn and strong in their faith, yes. Ignorant, hardly.
Yes, it is.Where it is not opinion but science versus false opinion, I say these people have been raised to think science is absolutely against their god and god operates in unscientific terms, and so that myth can overrule anything, and it is not blind or ignorant to believe it if you have been raised every step of the way to believe it.